
being sincere
so being polite
what should not do and what should do
i keep reminding myself
maybe being quiet is the first step
postpone all u want to say
postpone all first (too quick) come up to your mind
having time to be considerate
postpone the desire
be polite
he Politeness Principle for sharing
ReplyDeleteThree Maxims
1. Don't Impose
2. Give Options
3. Make your receiver feel good
(Robin Lakoff 1973)
also:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Politeness_maxims